What an honor to be with you here tonight. I've flown in and out
of Jackson airport once before, and driven through the city several times over
the years, but this is my first opportunity to actually be in Jackson, and I'm grateful for it.
I'm actually going to begin by asking for a silent show of hands
on a couple of things. I want to see whether my intuition about these questions
is correct. How many of you have heard or said any of the following?
·
Our
church is slowly dying. We've got to find a way to get more people through our
doors on Sundays.
·
We're
losing our young people to the megachurch up the road because they have a rock
band providing their music.
·
I don't
really go to church, but St Swithun's is the church I don't go to.
·
Episcopal?
I've never heard of it? Which religion is that?
Sometimes I'm in a position—usually either getting a haircut on
donating blood—where somebody feels like they need to make conversation with me
by asking what I do for a living. Now, when I first began my ordained ministry,
back in the late 1980s, in south Louisiana, I would routinely answer, "I'm
an Episcopal priest," and that would pretty much work. But our culture has
changed; our society has changed. For anyone under the age of 40 or so, I no
longer have any confidence that they would even understand that
"Episcopalian" is one of an array of brand names by which Christians
sort themselves out. So I'll begin to answer that casual question by asking,
"Have you ever heard of the Episcopal Church," and if they answer
Yes, I'll explain that I'm the bishop who covers the Episcopal churches in
central and southern Illinois. But if I just get a blank stare, I'll fall back
to the British royal family and, you know, William and Kate's wedding in
Westminster Abbey. And if they smile and say, "Yeah, I saw that on
TV," then I'll say, "Well that's us. We're that church," and
then hope that the young woman cutting my hair isn't looking for a place to get
married and thinks that an Episcopal church will let her have potted trees in
the nave during the ceremony. But ... if I strike out on the royal wedding
question, I really have nowhere else to go. Short of going into a long and
technical explanation, which they're not really interested in, because they
were just trying to make conversation, I have no cultural footholds, no
societal grammar, that I can exploit to explain succinctly what I do for a
living. So sometimes I make a joke about “Episcopal” being an anagram of
“Pepsi Cola,” and leave it at that.
Now, I realize that, in the deep south, the evolution of our
society may not have gotten quite to that point. I'm given to understand that
there's still a fair amount of dressing up and showing up for church on Sunday
mornings in places like Mississippi. But that's only a reprieve, I’m here to
tell you, not a pardon. It's only a matter of time, and probably not very much
time, before church affiliation disappears as a routine assumption in southern culture,
just like it has in the rest of the country.
The fact is, I would bet that, even right here in Jackson, we
could all fan out from this cathedral church and knock on doors asking, True or
False: Easter is about Jesus walking out of his tomb, and if he sees his
shadow, that means six more weeks of winter ... and the majority would say
either True or "I don't know." Fifty or sixty years ago,
baptismal certificates were accepted as proof of age for purposes of school
registration. Churches and clergy were presumed to be pillars of our society,
strengthening the social fabric (and therefore deserving of tax breaks and
other courtesies). Now, clergy are presumptively shady characters, and
city councils and neighborhood associations consider churches to be leeches on
municipal infrastructure and the tax base, a drag on society rather than an
asset. Churches now have to compete with organized athletic and other events
for the attention of kids and families on Sunday morning.
What we are experiencing, my friends, is not just a natural
cycle, not just a pendulum swing. There is a mountain of evidence—still
growing—that we are well into a monumental sea-change, not an organic
evolution, but a tectonic shift of the sort that happens only every several
hundred years. I would argue that the change we are in the middle of will turn
out to be more significant than the Reformation of the 16th century. In fact,
we need to go back about 1,700 years, to the early 4th century, to find the
other bookend.
Christianity, as you know, began in an obscure corner of the
Roman Empire. But, precisely because of the Roman Empire, that area of the
world was largely at peace, and, by the standards of the time, there was an
excellent road system (a better road system, actually, than there would again
be in Europe until the 18th century). So Christianity spread rapidly, attracted
the attention of the authorities, and soon came under successive waves of
persecution, some of it deadly, that would continue for nearly 300 years. But
then, Constantine, the emperor, had a vision one night, and Christianity soon
became not only legal, but, within a generation, the official religion of the
Roman Empire. In the seventh century, Islam eclipsed much of the Christian
world, so the focus shifted to Europe. And, in Europe, for the next millennium
and a half, there was what came to be called the Constantinian synthesis,
“Christendom”—a hand-in-glove relationship between the church and secular
society. They might struggle over which was the hand and which was the glove,
but there was no argument over the close relationship. To be a citizen was to
be a Christian, and to be a Christian was to be a citizen.
But, beginning in the 18th century with an intellectual movement
called the Enlightenment, the Christendom started to slowly unravel. (One could
argue that it actually began in the Renaissance and the Reformation, but, in
any case, certainly by the Enlightenment.) In the final decades of the last
century, the process of unraveling picked up speed at an exponential rate. The
moorings linking western culture to Christianity have come completely
undone. Just as ancient paganism found itself engulfed by the rising tide
of Christianity, so now the last flickering of Christendom is being doused by
the rising tide of ... well, it's hard to say what, precisely, but I'll
offer—as a sort of placeholder—secularism and radical individualism,
particularly the latter. That's fast becoming the dominant, default
intellectual mindset of our culture. Some might want to call it post-modernity,
but the upshot is this: the expression, "It works for me," is our
society's slogan. Ideologies are evaluated according to their utility, and
utility is defined as whatever increases personal autonomy. The majority
opinion in the recent Supreme Court decision on marriage drinks deeply from
this well in the assumptions it makes about the nature and purpose of marriage.
So, as I see it, we—the is, the Christian community—have three
options as we assess the tsunami of "post-Christendom" that is
already engulfing us. First, we can deny that it's happening, and treat it as
just a phase that our culture is going through, and that everything will get
back to "normal" a few years from now, as a natural cycle plays
itself out. I might be surprised, but I doubt there's anyone here who would
take such a position. I certainly would not. Second, we can resolve to resist
it, to stand firm against the barbarians as they proceed with the sacking of
Rome. This is the tack taken by most of the so-called "religious
right," those who use language like "Let's take back our country for
God." I suppose this might result in minor victories in
"battles," but we will still lose the war. Finally, we have the
option of embracing the change that is already upon us, and seeing it
as the greatest missionary opportunity for the Church of Jesus Christ
since the Day of Pentecost. As you can probably tell, this is the response that
I advocate.
What would "embracing" the secularization of our
society look like? Well, for starters, it would look like something that the
working title of this talk alludes to: Please Don't Invite Your
Friends to the Eucharist. Now, that's an expression that is
intentionally provocative. I hope it makes you uncomfortable! I'm going to
unpack it a bit presently, but it's clearly meant to be a metaphor for a
rather thorough shift in attitude away from an "attractional" stance
toward mission and in the direction of an "apostolic" stance. In
other words, instead of focusing our attention and energy on trying to get
"them out their" to drive to our parking lots on Sunday mornings and
walk through our beautiful red doors and join "us in here" for
worship, we camp out in their neighborhoods, build
relationships around mutual interests, and earn the privilege of talking to
them about their ultimate concerns, whatever it is that keeps them up at night,
which is the context in which we can credibly introduce them to Jesus. That, my
friends, is a long way from business-as-usual for Episcopalians.
So I would
like to tell you a story to illustrate what I'm talking about. It's a story
that I shared with my diocese about four years ago. I believe it’s a true
story, though I can’t be certain because it takes place in the future. So,
we’ll see.
Anyway,
Lisa and Jeff live outside of Sharpstown in Jones County, Illinois—check me
out, there are no such place names in Illinois; the names had been changed to
protect the unsuspecting—about 14 miles from the county seat city of Pinehurst.
Jeff works in his father’s retail farm implement business, and will one day own
it; Lisa works in a local beauty parlor. They have two kids in high school,
which can get a little expensive, so a couple of years ago they found
themselves in nearly $50,000 of revolving credit card debt. It seemed that they
just weren’t very good at managing their finances. Through one of Lisa’s hairdressing
clients, they heard about a series of seminars being held down at the VFW Hall.
They were feeling just vulnerable enough that they were willing to accept help
from just about any direction, so they attended the meetings.
Doing so
not only turned their financial life around—now their debt is less than
$20,000, they’re living within their means, and they’re looking forward to
actually opening a savings account—not only is their financial life turned
around, but they made some new friends who were also part of the group. What
Lisa and Jeff learned about halfway through the financial management series was
that it was sponsored by St Gabriel’s Episcopal Church in Pinehurst. Lisa’s
client, in fact, the one who told her about the seminar, is a member of St
Gabriel’s.
Now,
Lisa’s parents were Methodists when they themselves were kids, and Jeff’s were Roman
Catholics. But neither Lisa nor Jeff ever had any experience with any church,
except for the occasional wedding or funeral, where the religious talk never
made any sense to them. But a couple of their new friends from the financial
seminar invited them to a come to a group meeting in their home, right
there in Sharpstown. There was some good food, good fellowship, some
conversation about the big issues of life, and always a short prayer at the
end, led by the host couple, Julie and Mark. Jeff and Lisa were a little skeptical
at first, but they really liked the people, and found that they enjoyed
exploring the spiritual dimension of their lives, which they had never really done
before.
After
about three months of coming to these week night home group meetings, there was
a special visitor. Julie introduced him as Father Cliff, the priest from St
Gabriel’s. Over dinner, Lisa and Jeff learned that Fr Cliff actually had a day
job as an administrator at Pinehurst High School, and took care of St Gabriel’s
in his “spare time.” At the discussion time, Fr Cliff informed the group that
he had rented the VFW Hall on every other Sunday night beginning the following
month, and wanted to know whether anyone in the group would be interested in
joining him for a simple service of worship and instruction—a little music,
some prayers, and a time of teaching about the basics of Christian faith, and,
of course, some food. For those who continued to be interested, this could lead
to baptism. On their way home that night, Jeff and Lisa agree that they would
begin to attend those services.
So they
do. And they find that they actually enjoy the experience. Much to their
surprise, they begin to pray, on their own, at home. Not too much, but some.
They also find that their relationship with their kids begins to be a little
less stormy, and is sometimes even a little sweet. Nobody knows quite why, but
both parents and kids are happy about it. The kids begin to join their parents
at the VFW Hall on Sunday nights.
This goes
on for a couple of years. The VFW Hall meetings are now held every week. Their
oldest child is now away at one of the state universities. It’s fall, and Fr
Cliff begins to gently raise the question: Who feels ready for baptism? By this
time, there are over 20 adults in the group, none of whom had any previous ties
to a church. To Fr Cliff’s delight, the response is, “We thought you’d never
ask!” So the instruction becomes a little more intense. They begin to read more
scripture in their worship. By this time, both Jeff and Lisa have each gotten
hold of a Bible for their own personal use, so they notice that the passages of
scripture that are read are not chosen randomly, but follow a pattern. Some
people from St Gabriel’s quietly begin to show up and assist Fr Cliff with the
teaching by leading small group discussions. New songs are introduced in their
worship—songs with unfamiliar language and vocabulary that the catechists need to
explain the meaning of—and the group is taught to give responses to various
things the leader might say.
At the
beginning of December (or, as the group is told, “Advent”), each of the
candidates for baptism is paired with a sponsor from St Gabriel’s, someone who
listens to them and prays for them and emails them and talks by phone at least
weekly. About ten weeks later, at the beginning of Lent (which Jeff remembers
his Catholic grandmother talking about, though he never knew what it was), the
20 candidates solemnly sign their names in a special book that has been
prepared for that purpose, as their sponsors vouch for the fact that they have
been faithful in attending worship and instruction, and have lived in the world
in a manner worthy of a follower of Jesus. Fr Cliff and the other catechists
begin to mention something called the Eucharist, though whatever they say about
it is kind of vague, and they never teach about it directly. But Jeff and Lisa
and their other friends get the distinct impression that it’s pretty important,
and that, after they are baptized, it will be a regular part of their
experience.
Then, on
the night before Easter, a bus appears in the VFW Hall parking lot, which takes
everyone to Pinehurst, and St Gabriel’s Church. They’re ushered into the back
of the church and given a hand candle. It’s very dark. A lot of scripture is
read, and the passages are very long. But the catechumens have heard them all
before. It is in these stories that the gospel has been explained to them: the
Creation, the Flood, Abraham’s Sacrifice of Isaac, the Exodus, the Valley of
the Dry Bones. Then their sponsors present them to Fr Cliff, who is dressed up
in a way they’ve never seen him before! He asks them if they renounce the ways
of this world, and if they promise to follow Jesus as Lord. Then the whole
congregation says the Apostles’ Creed with them and answers some more
questions. Then, one by one, Fr Cliff baptizes them, and pours oil over
them—generously—and tells them that they have been sealed by the Holy Spirit in
baptism and marked as Christ’s own forever. Then, for the first time, they give
and receive the Sign of Peace, and finally, are actively present as heaven and
earth are joined and death and life become indistinguishable from one another,
and they dine on the Body and Blood of him whose true members they have now
become.
The next
Sunday, they gather for the Eucharist once again, only this time back
in the familiar VFW Hall in Sharpstown. The Bishop is there, somebody they’ve
only heard rumors about until this point! He leads them in a discussion about
becoming their own Eucharistic Community, and, together, they decide on a name:
the Church of the Advent, Sharpstown. And so it goes.
I haven't described anything that I expect will take place
precisely as I have told it, so I hope you get the gist. And I'll also try and
tie things together here and now, in a more prosaic fashion. This will take the
form of five concluding points:
First, the Church we are becoming will no longer be supported by
the social structures we were once accustomed to and dependent on. These
include a presumptive respect for churches and for clergy, an expected seat at
the public policy table, non-taxable property, clergy income that is
tax-privileged ... you get the general direction.
Second, the Church we are becoming will no longer be able to
assume that those around them in society have a basic knowledge of the
Christian narrative that they absorb just by being part of the culture. I
want to add here that I consider this a supremely good thing, and pray for the
day to be hastened. The day we have some real blank slates to work with, rather
than people who think they know what Christianity is, but really don’t, and
have therefore rejected a cheap knockoff of the real thing—the sooner that day
arrives, our evangelistic task will get a whole lot easier.
Third, the Church we are becoming will be made up of committed,
well-formed, disciples who are ready to engage apostolic mission. You have to
be a disciple before you can be an apostle, so let's be about making more and
better disciples, shall we?
Fourth, in the Church we are becoming, the Eucharist will no
longer be our "front door," the entrance to the railway station, but,
rather, several stops down a line that includes connection, evangelization,
formation, and initiation (that is, baptism). [Incidentally, this will
render the current controversial conversation about offering Holy
Communion to the unbaptized completely moot, because, as we saw in the story
about Jeff and Lisa, people won't even see the
Eucharist until they are baptized.]
Finally, the Church we are becoming will not concern itself with
conforming to society and culture, or following society and culture, or gaining
the approval of society and culture—and still less with being on the so-called
"right side of history." Rather, we will be focused on being an alternative society
and culture, modeling in our own life together the values of the coming Kingdom
of God, and saying to the world, "If you want to know what's comin' down
the pike, look at us!"
It's an ambitious vision, I will grant you. It involves leap-frogging
over the last 1,700 years of Christendom and learning some "best
practices" from our forebears who knew how to be a church in a non-churchy
world. We can't replicate everything they did, of course—their context was
pre-Christian and ours is post-Christian—but there's an awful lot we can learn
from their experience. In the meantime, let's start building the infrastructure
that will relieve the Sunday Eucharist of a duty it was never designed to
perform—being our front door, our show window, to the world. Instead, in the
spirit of Eugene Peterson's translation of John 1:14, let's "move
into the neighborhood" and bring Jesus with us.